A hail mary. A simple hope.

Maybe this reaches the right person.

I'm 44. I've lived an honest life. I've helped a lot of people along the way. I'm not asking for what you can't spare. I'm just putting my story out there and seeing what happens.

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GoFundMe keeps the running total. I didn't set a goal here. Just grateful for whatever comes in.

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Where I am

I'm doing OK. I really am. But there's so much of life I haven't gotten to experience yet, and I'm buried in debt. Some of that is on me. Decisions I made put me where I am, and I'm not here to make excuses about it.

I've tried and failed plenty of times. I've had big setbacks and I've had some big wins too. But I'm at a point now where I don't think I can climb out on my own. I'm out of ideas and I'm out of means to dig my way out.

I know I'll be happy with or without help. That's the truth. But I'm not going to pretend the weight isn't real, or that a lucky break wouldn't mean the world to me.

Why not? Why not throw a hail mary and see what happens? The hope alone that this site exists, and that maybe someone reads it, makes me smile when I think about the possibility.

I haven't shared this with my family. To me it's a shot in the dark. A simple hope that maybe this message reaches someone who can relate. Or maybe they can't relate at all but they just have a giving heart.

I don't have a get rich formula. I've lived an honest life these 44 years and I'll live an honest life for whatever I have left, however things go.

What I want

More than anything I want to share experiences with my family, my friends, even strangers. I don't want flash things. I'm not looking to buy a big house or a fancy car. I like to stay humble.

I love seeing the smiles on my boys' faces when I'm able to do things for them that they thought were impossible. That's what it's about for me.

I know money doesn't solve everyone's problems. But I also know you need it to live the one life you get. I'm not chasing luxury. I just want room to breathe and actually live a little.

  • Experiences over things

    Time with the people I love. Not status symbols.

  • My boys

    Their smiles are the whole point.

  • Stay humble

    No flash. Just an honest life.

Who I am

I love to see others blessed. I've given people a place to live until they got back on their feet. I helped a family member get the dump truck they needed to be an owner operator. I've paid for family to get the schooling they needed to start a career. I've even helped new players in games I've played.

I don't ask for anything in return. I just ask them to pass it on. That's always been my thing.

If something ever comes of this, I won't forget what it feels like to need a hand. I'll keep passing it on.

What I believe

I trust in the Lord. He has provided for me before and I believe He will again, with or without this site. God is on my side. I know I'll be OK.

I don't want to be shamed or labeled a beggar. I'm sharing where I'm at, not demanding anything from anyone. No pressure. No guilt.

If you're able

Please don't give what you don't have. Only give if it truly won't hurt your finances in any way.

Reach out

If you want to talk, ask a question, or just say hello, you're welcome to email me. I'll only reply if you reach out first. I won't contact anyone otherwise.

Email coming soon

Setting up an anonymous address for this site. Check back soon.

Questions you might have

Why are you anonymous?
I haven't told my family about this. It's personal and still feels like a long shot. I'd rather let the story speak for itself. If this goes anywhere, maybe I'll share more later.
Is this real?
Yes. I'm 44, I have real debt, I have boys, and I have a long history of helping people. I'm not selling a course or some formula. Just my story.
What will you do with the money?
Get out from under debt. Have some room to breathe. Do things with the people I love. Keep passing it on like others have done for me. No fancy car. No big house.
Is there a fundraising goal?
No. I'm not chasing a number. Whatever comes my way is a gift and I'll be grateful for it.
Do I get something in return?
Just my word that I'll pass it on. Same as I've always asked of others. No perks, no tiers. I'll post updates when I can.